Functional Alcoholic

By Kayla Loibl | Last Edited: November 29, 2020 | 4 Sources

Functioning Alcoholic
Alcoholism progression

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A functional alcoholic may seem to live a completely 'normal' life.

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But it is only a matter of time before the signs of alcoholism appear and life unravels.

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There is a myth (or is it wishful thinking?) that if you drink a lot but can go about life as normal then you must not be an alcoholic.

That is, if you manage to complete day to day tasks then your drinking is not an issue

This just isn't true.

The definition of a functional alcoholic is somebody who displays signs of alcoholism (or at least some of them) but is able to live a 'normal' life.

They get up in the morning, have breakfast, go to work, put the kids to bed, play football on a Saturday, keep their partner happy......and so on. Everything is just fine...in their eyes at least.

Sorry to burst the bubble but, yes, you can function as an alcoholic and for quite some time. However, eventually, alcoholism progression will mean you won't be able to keep up the act anymore.

Here is a great resource...

The Functioning Alcoholic and Alcoholism Progression

Alcoholism is progressive. This means that is follows a definite path and goes through distinctive phases or alcoholism stages. The final stage is, unfortunately, death unless help is sought.

During the first two alcoholism stages, it is possible to cover up your excessive drinking but enter the final stages of alcoholism and this is just not an option anymore.

In end stage alcoholism you can no longer hide your alcoholic abuse. There is only so much drinking the body can take and the long term effects of alcoholism and alcohol abuse health effects will become very visible.

Anyway having a functioning life and a good life are not the same.

Why be a functional alcoholic when you can break your addiction forever and have a more fulfilling life? And....

.....you may be functioning at the moment but if you don't think about quitting drinking soon then you may well be dysfunctional not too long from now.

I don't want to preach but if you suspect you are (or someone you care about is) a functional alcoholic get help NOW before it is too late.

The Signs of a Functional Alcoholic

• You drink like you did when you were younger. Most people drink quite a bit when they are at college or in their late teens/early twenties. It is a rite of passage. Most people stop binge drinking when they get a job, settle down etc. The functional alcoholic doesn't. They still drink like a fish.
• You laugh about your drinking. It is a part of who you are. People in your social group also make jokes about it. It is a running joke. Sometimes you might get defensive, aggressive, or angry when the jokes get too much.
• You are generally the first one at the bar, the party, the drinks cabinet. The first two or three drinks go down fast. Sometimes you have drinks before you go out to get a head start on everybody else.
• Is drinking a large part of your life? Do you look forward to going out? Would you rather go to the bar than the cinema? Do you avoid going to places where drink isn't available? Are you a big organizer of after work drinks, parties etc.?
• You can drink most people under the table and you don't even get drunk (or at least don't look as if you do). Are you a 'happy drunk'?
• Do you sometimes have trembling hands? Have alcoholic blackouts? Suffer from anxiety when you haven't had a drink for a while?
• Are you proud of the fact that you can drink so much and still get up for work and lead a 'normal life'? Do you think you are immune to the addictive nature of alcohol?

If you recognize yourself in these then maybe it is time to take a look at your drinking habits. That is, if you want to.

Do you live with a functional alcoholic? Loving an alcohol dependent is one of the most painful things you will ever have to cope with. However, there is hope. C.P.Lehman in his book, Help Me! I'm In Love With An Addict provides you with the strategies that will enable you to find contentment and get your life back where you want it to be.

If you found this page helpful, then the following may be of interest to you: Alcoholism denial. Are you or someone you care about denying a problem with drinking. First signs of alcoholism. Catch alcoholism early. Alcohol abuse effects. How does excessive alcohol consumption impact on health. Alcoholic intervention. Do you need to persuade a family member that their drinking is out of control? Alcoholism Stages. The three stages of alcohol dependence uncovered. Coping with an alcoholic. Tips on how to cope with someone who drinks too much. Moderate drinking guidelines. The difference between safe and unsafe drinking. Alcoholism test. Take a questionnaire to determine if you have a drinking problem.

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