My spouse is an Alcoholic. He never wants to talk about our issues, like when he gets drunk and bashes me with Nasty, Hurtful words to his brother and friends. He enjoys conversing with his work partner who is 24, my spouse is going on 44. If I do try and talk to him after he has had a few he gets violent and throws stuff across the room. I discovered he went on porn about three weeks ago. Afterwards he acted weird like mad, shutoff from me. He doesn't know I know all this yet. His drinking is everyday and drinks and drives company and personal vehicles. It makes me furious. His personality changes when he can't drink, he is converting his appearance back to when he was 20.
He never wants to do outings with me and our daughter, but will Jump to go with his brother whenever. I feel like I've gone or about to go crazy. I can't take this one minute he loves me, yeah right ! Next day I'm a B____. I think he is bipolar too, or is this all the Alcohol? His mother is dying won't make it probably another month.
I love my spouse or I did, but I'm ready to Divorce and go on. What is this going to do to him when I do? He needs Tough Love.
A desperate, confused wife
by heather
I have no choice, but worry it will make him worse. I have to look out for our children though.
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