For those who give up drinking and remain (or return to) behaviorally, emotionally and psychologically a drunk, we have a term, "Dry Drunk".
This term is obviously an oxymoron as it implies that a person is drunk without ingesting alcohol.
Dry Drunk Syndrome is a condition where an alcoholic retains mental and behavioral traits associated with drunkenness even when he or she is not drinking alcohol.
Surely, one would think that the “dry” state is a critical objective for alcoholism treatment regimen. Unfortunately, the presence of this syndrome is actually an indication that an individual is in danger of alcohol relapse. He or she remains emotionally disturbed, mentally unstable and spiritually skewed despite quitting alcohol.
Thus, as an alcoholic, nothing significant has been achieved under a dry drunk condition aside from stopping the habit of drinking alcohol. In fact, the manifestation of typical signs of dry drunk syndrome is a red flag that should concern a recovering alcoholic.
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This syndrome (the existence of which is by no means universally accepted) is used by some in the addiction field to justify the need for comprehensive alcohol dependence treatment programs. It is not enough just to stop drinking.
Beyond the physiological concerns, you need to undergo parallel therapy to address the destructive behavioral, emotional and mental variables of the medical condition.
Persons suffering from the syndrome fail to attain the level of sobriety or resist the necessary conditions associated with sober living.
A recovering alcoholic needs to be aware of the typical signs of Dry Drunk Syndrome in order to prevent falling into relapse. You need to undertake timely and appropriate action if you observe the following signs:
Feelings of superiority – When a recovering alcoholic fails to achieve sober realism, he or she exaggerates his sense of self-importance. This skewed mindset may be manifested either as strength or weakness in character.
Intolerance – An alcoholic is prone to make inappropriate evaluations and tend to become exceedingly judgmental in his or her actuations and interaction with other people. This can sometimes develop into anger management problems, which greatly complicate the recovery process.
Misplaced value judgment - The need for instant gratification of one’s personal desires becomes the overriding concern of an alcoholic. A recovering alcoholic loses his or her sense of priority to a point that even a passing fancy is given due course over that of the more essential concerns.
Unpremeditated acts – Failure to control the need for instant gratification will trigger impulsive acts and feelings. This impulsiveness will ultimately force a person to ignore the implications of his or her actions and decisions.
Vacillation – A person who tends to become impulsive will also be indecisive. Indecisiveness occurs when an alcoholic fails to weigh the implications of his or her action or decision. He or she vacillates when faced with several courses of action and ends up not taking action at all.
Other behaviors that can be part of this syndrome are as follows:
Abrupt shifts from depression to euphoria
Inability to express feelings and emotions naturally
Lack of introspection
Evidence of distortion and distraction
Avoid emotional connection or attachment
Unrealistic appreciation of self-worth
Detachment from reality
What To Do If You Are Suffering From Dry Drunk Syndrome
If you suspect that you might be returning to 'drinking mode', then there are a number of courses of action you can take:
If you are a member of Alcoholics Anonymous, then go to a meeting, talk to your sponsor, read the literature etc.
See a counselor or a therapist to try and change your behavior and thinking patterns. The Alcoholism Guide has their own counselor, Deborah Morrow. If you would like to speak with her then fill out this free alcohol asessment form.
Talk to another recovering alcoholic who can listen and give advice. Someone who can empathize with your situation is a great help in times of darkness.
If all else fails, check into a treatment center; you don't have to be an active alcoholic to go into treatment. It is a misconception that all that happens in rehab is alcoholism detox. In rehab you will undergo a comprehensive treatment program including group therapy, counseling, relapse prevention etc. In other words all those things that will prevent you from becoming a dry drunk.
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Deborah Morrow, M.S. Addiction Psychology, is the director of treatment programs for The Alcoholism Guide website. In her practice Deborah provides on-line coaching and support for those dependent on alcohol or who require other services such as relapse prevention or court mandated services. (Read More)